Can’t arrive with servants that are not personal
Servants are only Personal when they arrive with the Ven.
Only one guard is accepted as personal (wagered).
Other servants may not arrive at the same time.
The host cannot accept a gift directly, except when given directly by a Ven, which must be accepted personally.
One must be seated at the table by dinner or one is late.
Complements must be egrerious.
One must be seated by the time dinner is served or else one is late.